Weddings

I'm just sooo happy right now, I am heading to my girly friends house to help her set up for her wedding tomorrow. I love weddings (I haven't been to many as most if my friends are already married before I met them or my friends in high school I don't really talk to so they got married without me (which is no sweat off my back).

My man and I decided to buy a house instead of getting married right away, which was the best investment we made! We are sooo very much in love and want to have a great wedding with only our closest family and friends. To have this great wedding without debt (because I have been in school forever) is going to take another year to happen. We talk about our future wedding ALL THE TIME and have every detail planned out together. We don't agree on everything and there are lots of compromises from both sides which I think is amazing. We have NEVER fought without a resolution before bed. This ADORABLE old couple told me many years ago "to have a successful marriage you must COMPROMISE with love, NEVER TALK NEGATIVELY about your partner to the opposite sex, and NEVER GO TO SLEEP angry with each other." I think these words of wisdom she passed down were the best advice anyone could have given me. (of course this was passed on to my man). We live by this phrase and share more love then we could have imagined.

This is best wishes and lots of love to my very amazing girly friend S tomorrow. You will have a long and happy marriage filled with arguments that make you stronger and love that over takes the world.

And I must put in, I love you sooo much Shmoopy doops!