
Day 20: Something I wish I could forget
I know I said I wouldn't write any negative things in here... but its part of the photo challenge... Well, this is kinda depressing... but here it is. I wish I could forget that my father is soo lame. Its not the kind of lameness that parents tend to have like when they do something "uncool" it is lame from all perspectives! He knocks up women, marries them then cheats on them then they divorce him... There have been at least 5 wives (that I know of)... How many children you ask? None from the first marriage, 3 from the 2nd marriage, 4 from the 3rd marriage, 1 from the 4th marriage, and the latest woman is pregnant. So that's... 9 children. Financial support you ask? Nope! Nothing is given out except to the youngest boy... oh did I mention we are all girls except the last child? He is also an old man! The oldest daughter is 26, and the youngest well... in the womb. He is 62... Like women, mens sperm should stop producing after a certain age!
Isn't there research showing the importance for a child's relationship with their father? Interesting...
The worst part is that the children literally suffer. I know, I am one of them. My father cheated on my mom twice... the second time my mom decided she could not deal with it and left him when I was 8 years old.
On the positive side, I was raised by the greatest mom in the whole world! She went to school to become a nurse, bought a house from absolutely nothing and raised 3 successful girls. She is incredibly beautiful, can do all renovations to a house, roofing, but in the evenings she dresses up in ball gowns and goes dancing to galas and keeps a positive attitude the whole time. I am so proud to call her my mommy!
I do forgive him for what he has done, but I will never forget...